Finding your perfect woman...part 3

It's not what she said...it's how she said it

Finding your perfect woman...part 3

Last week I told you about the second of five steps to finding your perfect woman.

It involved pinpointing only the type of women you're physically attracted to. You can read this article in the archives section of the Weekly Score if you missed it.

Now, once you've completed step two, you are now left with a pool of women who meet your absolute requirements and are exactly what you're looking for – physically.

You'd never have these kinds of options in a singles bar.

No way!

But who cares about those days?

Because now it's time for you to hone in on an even more select group of women – your specific matches.

These are the women who are going to impress you so much...you're now going to consider meeting them.

You've already identified the women who meet your absolute requirements and who you find attractive; now it's time to see what these women have to say.

Reading a woman's personal ad allows you to getter a better insight as to what you can expect from her.

Say for instance you're looking to meet a woman who's interested in pursuing a serious relationship. If she mentions in her ad that she likes to party every chance she gets or loves to date different people, then maybe she's not exactly what you're looking for.

However, say you're just coming out of a serious relationship, and you're looking to enjoy your freedom for awhile, then this woman could quite possibly be a good match for you.

Though I should add, you may not want to be too quick to judge a woman solely on her personal ad.

Some women may not be all that good with words. We know that some men certainly have this problem at times.

If she does meet your absolute requirements, you are attracted to her and her ad doesn't scream, "I'm definitely not the one," then you may still want to consider her.

The best advice I can offer in these situations – go with your gut!

Besides, you'll learn a lot more about her once you actually start communicating with her.

We'll go over, in detail, how to weed out even more women who don't meet your requirements next week when we discuss the communication process in further detail.

And before I go, let me just take a quick moment to congratulate John T. from York, PA who, after a few slight modifications to a V.P.A.A. ad last month, impressed even me when he was able to juggle 5 different dates with 5 different women last week.

I'm so glad the ad was successful John, but 5 dates in 5 days? Don't you have a job?!! :)

Until next time,

Happy Scoring!