Impress her with your softer side while still maintaining your manhood

Trying to understand women is about as easy as trying to figure out the secrets of the universe.


It’s impossible to pin down a truism about any woman. Because as soon as you think you have it figured it out…she goes and does something to completely disprove your theory.


For instance, do women want a strong, manly man? Or do they want a softer, gentler man?


Sure, they say they want a sensitive guy. So why is it that so many insensitive guys seem to get all the women?


I could probably list about 20 possible theories to explain that one. But let’s get more to the point here.


Do women really want a sensitive guy? Or is it just another one of those things that women say…but don’t really mean?


Impress her with your sensitive side


The fact is women do want a sensitive man. But the key word here is MAN.


Women first and foremost want a man. They want the security and protection that men, biologically can offer.


And this isn’t just random opinion either.


Multiple studies have proven this theory, time and time again.


You see, there are certain indicators that women respond to when it comes to their attraction to men. A strong build, height advantages, voice tone and aggressiveness (a.k.a – confidence), just to name a few.


But the thing is women want the best of both worlds.


Yes, they do want a strong protector. That’s a proven scientific fact.


However, they also want you to provide them with an emotional connection as well.


Now since women are inherently sensitive creatures, they seek out those who also share some form of sensitive behavior.


That’s where a lot of their girlfriends come into play. (Get your mind out of the gutter. I don’t mean those kinds of girlfriends!)


While women do look to their girlfriends for this sensitivity connection, they also desperately seek it in their boyfriends or husbands as well.


By providing this sensitivity connection, you are giving her the best of both worlds. Not only satisfying what most men leave as a void…but also maintaining a reason for her to become closer to you and seek you out whenever she needs that connection.


Therefore, it’s extremely important for you to provide your woman with indicators of sensitivity.


By doing this in the early stages of the online courting process, you will undoubtedly be able to provide her with the validation she needs to feel confident about pursuing a relationship with you.


Here are 5 surefire ways to indicate you have a sensitive side…while still maintaining your manhood.


Do not make fun of other people…even people she may not know, by mocking their appearance


Women are very sensitive about their appearance. If she sees you mocking others because of their appearance, she will see you as an insensitive ass.


Acknowledge the less fortunate


Nothing says sensitive like a guy who cares about those less fortunate. But don’t try to be a martyr either. Use this technique sparingly.


Acknowledge your affection for you family


A man who appreciates his family is a man who is sensitive enough to appreciate the importance of family. And if you don’t get along with your family, acknowledge others who do have a strong family bond, and let her know that you envy those people.


Acknowledge your feelings


You don’t need to be all mushy and pathetic about it. But if you have real feelings for this woman…let her know.


Read books by women authors


You really want to hit a sensitive button? Read a book by Isabelle Allende or Willa Cather. This will give you a bit of an insight into the inner workings of a woman’s mind. Her desires, her goals, her obstacles. The more you can understand a woman, the more sensitive you will be to her needs.


Like I said, women want a sensitive MAN.


Just because you have a sensitive side, doesn’t mean you need to emasculate yourself.


Crying over a Lifetime movie special or Celine Dion song is not sensitive. It’s just weird!


Ultimately she does want you to be a man. She does want you to be strong.


But throw in a few clues that you’re not a soulless Neanderthal, and her comfort level with you will soar.


And so too will her desire to be with you!


Until next time,


Happy Scoring!