The 5 quickest ways to impress a woman online - Part 3

By Jack Conway

Women love to talk about themselves.


And let’s be honest – men do too.


But you’re trying to impress the ladies here – so let’s stick to the issue at hand.


Women love to talk about themselves, and we love to impress women.


It doesn’t take a doctorate in thermonuclear engineering to figure out that one of the best ways to impress a woman is to guide her into a conversation that revolves around her.


Because the fact is, when you’re with a woman – she wants to feel as if she’s the only girl in the room. And what better way to make that happen than to clue her in on your desire to know more about her.


There are three failsafe topics you can address with a woman that will guarantee two things:

A.) She’ll talk for hours

B.) She’ll think the world of you after you show a genuine interest in her by bringing up these topics of discussion.


So let’s get to it.


Topic #1 – Family


Not everyone has a great family history. But nonetheless, a woman’s family will have a tremendous impact on who she is as a person. Therefore, by asking her about her family, you’re really asking her about herself – just in a more indirect way.


The definite plus side here is that if a woman is close to any member of her family, just talking about that family member will put a smile on her face.


Now, say for instance she is very close with her sister. Use that information to keep her talking about herself. She just told you about her family. She just told you about how close she is with her sister. Follow-up comment/question – “Wow, it sounds like you really are close with your sister. That’s so great. I’ve always envied people who have close relationships with their family. Were the two of you mischievous little kids growing up?” Well, of course the answer to that will be yes. All children are mischievous. But the point is she’s now going to talk even more about her family. Telling you stories, and ultimately becoming more attracted to you.


Topic #2 – Job/School


Sometimes it’s pretty much expected that you both will end up discussing your jobs. But this doesn’t have to be a cliché topic.


Instead of just asking her what she does for a living. Ask her specifics about her job. What is it exactly that she does? What’s a typical day like for her? Does she like her job? How did she get into it in the first place? If she doesn’t like her job, ask her what she’d rather be doing. And why?


Topic #3 – Childhood


Wanting to know what she was like growing up will send her a signal that you’re interested in her for more than just the short-term. No guy looking for a quick one-nighter cares about her childhood.


A great way to bring this up is to ask her where she grew up. Then follow up by asking her about the place she lived. Was it nice? What was her house like growing up? What did she do for fun as a kid? Was she involved in any after-school activities or sports? Does she still keep in touch with anyone from when she was a child?


Turn on the charm!



Another great way to really turn on the charm and impress her is to get creative.


A great way to make her smile and really get her to open up and appreciate you is to ask her this simple question…


If you could go any place in the world, where would it be…and why?


Rest assured, a smile will appear.


She will be so impressed that not only are you interested in her family, job and childhood – but you also want to know something that she probably doesn’t get to share with too many people.


The fact is every woman wants to go somewhere interesting or exotic. Here’s her chance to get that off her chest. She’ll appreciate the fact that you’re interested in her enough to ask such a wonderful question.


Of course, if she ends up asking you the same question – go with a place that suggests culture, relaxation and adventure. Perhaps the south of France or Italy. Both of these places scream culture, relaxation and adventure.


And who knows, maybe the two of you will eventually end up there together one day!


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Until next time,


Happy Scoring!