Turning Women On: the 5 biggest myths - part 5

Last week you read about the fourth biggest myth in regards to turning women on via your personal ad. It's called the 'Material Myth'. And in case you missed it, you can read the full article in the archives of the Weekly Score.

Today we'll go over the fifth biggest myth about turning women on via your personal ad - the 'justification' myth!

I can't tell you how many personal ads I've seen which start off with something like:

"I'm not sure why I’m doing this." or "I can't believe I’m doing this."

Start off your ad like that, and nearly every woman will be thinking one thing, "What do you mean you can't believe you're doing this? Then why are you here?"

Unfortunately, some guys still associate a certain stigma with online personal ads. And despite the fact that these guys are giving it a try - they still feel the need to justify what they’re doing by downplaying the whole process. It's really nothing more than a defense mechanism - that does backfire.

If online personal ads didn't work, they wouldn't exist.

But the fact is they do work. So well in fact, that the online dating industry is the most profitable on the internet.

It's more profitable than porn, news, music, you name it.

Whether we want to admit it or not, there are a lot of people out there who are single - not because they want to be, but because for one reason or another, they just haven't met the right person.

Online dating gives men the opportunity to find exactly the type of women they want to date.

The only problem is, if you start off your ad putting down the very thing that CAN get you dates - you've already lost!

I had a Weekly Score member e-mail a sample of his personal ad back in January. The first line was, "I can't believe I'm actually writing a personal ad."

Well, Romeo - that'll really sweep her off her feet!

I explained to him why this was a horrible technique. But he didn't believe me. He said he wanted to come off as the kind of guy who really didn't need to be there in the first place.

Well, if he didn't need or want to be there - why was he?

He was trying to play it cool - but he was coming off as kind of a fool.

If you were at a bar and saw a woman you wanted to talk to, would you approach her and say, "Hi, I don't even know why I'm here."

Of course not.

So why would you do it in your personal ad?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with looking for women on online dating sites. In fact, it's the smartest place you can look for women. With so many options, you can't lose (as long as you have an effective personal ad).

And if you're at all concerned about how you "look" as a single person trying to meet women online, I have the best piece of advice anyone could offer.

Get over it!

Do you want to date women or do you want to sit home, night after night - alone?

So there you have it - the five biggest myths about turning women on via your personal ad.

Until next time,

Happy Scoring!