You'll be the most incredible man she's ever met!!! Part 3

Before we get to the third installment of this series, let me share with you an e-mail I recently received from a V.P.A.A. member.

Dear Jack

The reason I took to online dating so well is because I never seem to make a good first impression in real life. I could never figure out why. But getting past a first date has always been a problem for me. So I decided to take your advice regarding the first date dinner. I found a local Vietnamese restaurant that serves Pho. It's a kind of soup. I love it! Anyway, I met this woman online. I asked her out. She said yes. So I went to this Vietnamese place and set the whole thing up. They greeted me by my first name when I walked in and treated us really well. They even gave us free dessert. She was definitely impressed. I think that experience gave me the confidence I needed to not come off like an uncomfortable high school kid throughout the date. She invited me over for dinner next week. I can't thank you enough Jack!

Steve
Rochester Hills, MI

It's amazing how the slightest bit of planning can perfect a date - and build your confidence as well!

Congratulations Steve!

And if things go well with her dinner, give today's date a try too.

While what I'm about to share with you today makes a great "first date." It can also work just as well with a second, third or fifteenth date. Doesn't matter!

A little mood music?

A lot of people prefer online dating because they don't like the bar scene.

But not every bar needs to be a shady meat market.

In fact, a great place to take a woman is to a certain type of bar... (or lounge, actually).

A jazz lounge to be specific.

Most major cities have a few jazz lounges that cater to those who want a warm, relaxing atmosphere with soft music and drinks that aren't test tube shot glasses being served by large-breasted women in tight orange shirts.

An unassuming jazz lounge will provide you and your date with a quiet place to talk, while still being entertained by top-notch jazz musicians.

Nothing says class like live jazz and a glass of wine.

Though be careful not to overdo it on the wine.

The last thing you need to do is get drunk on some expensive pinot. Or worse yet, taking down a few glasses of merlot only to have your teeth and lips turn purple.

One glass of white wine is the best way to go. Though keeping a glass of water nearby is also a good idea, as wine can sometimes be a little dehydrating - thus causing the possibility of bad breath.

When you're finished with your glass of wine, just sip on the water here and there. Just to make sure that if a kiss is coming, your mouth doesn't feel like dry leather.

A jazz lounge also allows you some time to take a break from conversation if you need it.

When the music comes on, the two of you can just relax and enjoy.

This kind of date actually works quite well as either a precursor to a dinner or an "after-work" date during the middle of the week. As it generally won't take more than a couple of hours.

And there you have it... a classy, first date idea that will definitely impress her.

Join me next week when I'll reveal the fourth best "first date." This one is a little more involved - but works quite well.

Until then,


Happy Scoring!