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Guaranteed to Get a Date Guide
"Average 20 to 40 Responses A Month Using Online Personal Ads Written By
A Professional Advertising Writer"
As You'll See, All Personal Ads Have Been Tested And Proven To Work, Plus...
In My Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide,You'll Learn The Following:
- Why The 3-U Method Of Writing Personal Ads Is So Effective At Attracting Women (The 3-U's Stand For Uniqueness, Ultra-Specific, And Urgency)
- How To Use The 3-U Method To Write The 3 Elements Of Your Ad: The Headline, The Personal Profile, And The Close
- The Single-Most Effective Word Women Respond To? And Why This Word Should Appear In Your Ad At Least 3 Times
- When A Woman Has Responded To Your Ad, Use These 4 Rules For Replying Back
- Plus You'll Get 5 Proven Personal Ads To Use For Yourself! Including The Exact Ad That Got Me 23 Women In 7 Days!
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If you're reading this, it means you're interested in Internet dating. Perhaps you have tried your luck posting a generic personal ad on a dating site, but have experienced poor results. Maybe you're thinking of posting an ad on a site like Match.com or the Yahoo Personals.
Whatever your reason is, I want you to know that I can dramatically increase your odds of getting women with your personal ad. In fact, I guarantee it.
My name is Jack Conway, and I'm a highly successful advertising writer. For the past 2 years, I've been showing thousands of men like you how to write online personal ads that standout so much, they get 30, 40, sometimes 50 responses in a single month.
I've been featured on the websites of Time Magazine and the Onion. I'm a regular guest contributor on the male sites, Bullz-eye and Askmen.com. Bottom line is - I can help you get women.
All you have to do is follow the 3-U Method for writing personal ads. I'll show you what the 3-U's are in a moment, but first...
Imagine it's Saturday night, and you just posted a personal ad of yourself on the Yahoo Personals. The next morning, you log into your email and discovered that 6 women have replied.
The next day, you get another 4 replies.Tuesday comes, and you get 3 more. By the end of the week, 23 women have contacted you for a date. Sound too good to be true? Well click on the link below. This is my actual email inbox from September.
Think about that for a second. On September 7, 2002, I posted a personal ad. Within a week, I had more women than I could handle. How did I do it? Easy. Being a professional advertising writer, I wrote my personal ad using the same advertising techniques I use when I write magazine advertisements.
You can read the exact ad I used. It's included in The Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide. Specifically, it's personal ad template #2, and you can find it on page 20. Personal ad #2 has been extremely effective at getting women. Hundreds of guys have successfully used it - or have modified it to fit their particular circumstances.
In fact, I'm currently testing ads on 4 different sites. So far, the ad I posted on Americansingles.com and Yahoo is working like a gem. Between July 3 and today, more than 126 women have contacted me. It has worked so well that I've decided to immediately include it in The Guide.
You can use that one too. But before you post it on a dating site, I want you to understand why my personal ads work so much better than everybody else's. And to understand that, you need to learn the 3-U Method. The 3-U's stands for: 1) Uniqueness 2) Ultra-specific and 3) Urgency.
The 3-U Method is a way of using words to advertise a product, a service, or in the case of a personal ad, you. I want you to drill that into your head - when you place a personal ad on a dating site, you are selling yourself to hundreds of women.
So you have to think and write like a master marketer.
In a few moments I'll explain what each U means. And I'll show you how each works in the 3 main elements of your ad: 1) the headline 2) the personal profile and 3) the close.
But before I explain the 3-U Method in detail, let me tell you exactly who I am, and why I can help you with Internet dating.
How I Became An Internet Dating Expert By Accident
Copy (or a written advertisement) is intended to persuade people to do something, like buy perfume, buy a car, or buy a subscription to Maxim. (In the case of dating sites, good copy will persuade women to respond to your personal ad.)
Chances are you may have seen and read my stuff before. That's how good I was.
In fact, between the years of 1996 and 1999 I was one of the top copywriters in my company. The advertisements I wrote sold millions of dollars worth of product and services.
Everything was going great for me, until the year 2000. That's when I went through a brutal separation and divorce with my wife. Suddenly after 6 years of marriage, I found myself single. I was 31 years old at the time, and really didn't want to hit the club scene all over again. Been there, done that... a hundred times over.
At the urging of a friend, I posted a personal ad of myself on Match.com. This was well before Internet dating was popular. In fact, I didn't tell anybody that I was on a dating site because I felt a little embarrassed about it.
Now, when I wrote my personal ad, I wrote it in the same style, voice and tone as I do when I write advertisements. I mean, I've been doing it for so long, it just came natural to me.
Well, to make a long story short, soon after I posted my personal ad I began to get flooded with emails from women who had read it. In a month's time, I'd received responses from over 50 women. And roughly 75% of them immediately asked to meet me.
My friend, who had also posted a personal ad on Match.com, was shocked. He hadn't received a single reply. This was even more surprising because he's better looking than me.
So what was the difference? Why did my personal ad do so much better than his? Easy. The difference was how I presented myself in my ad.
You see, my friend wrote a generic, run-of-the-mill personal ad. It didn't standout. In fact, it was downright boring. As a result, it didn't catch the attention of any women.
Here's exactly what he wrote:
Headline: Is anybody out there?
Hello. Thanks for stopping by. Let me tell you a little bit about myself. I'm laid back and easy to get along kind with. I like to play pool, bowl, go for walks, and hiking on the weekends. I like to go out and try new things or just stay in and cuddle with that special someone. Unfortunately I don't have a special someone. I work a lot and have not had much luck with the bar scene so I am trying this online thing. If you are interested drop me a line and we can see where things go. I am looking for someone has a good outlook on life. Someone I can trust. Honesty is very important. Someone who can keep up a conversation. (Communication is very important) Also you must have to have a sense of humor. Looking for someone who I can spend time with as good friends progressing to more. Someone who does not mind being with a gentlemen. Someone who I can lean on when I need, someone and that I can be there for when she needs. If you want to know more drop me a line and I will tell you anything you want to know.
It's no mystery why he didn't get any replies. His ad was boring and typical. So if a woman happened to read it, they would think he is boring and typical as well. And women aren't looking for boring and typical guys.
Now, if you think his boring ad is an isolated case, think again.Go to any dating site, and do a search of men in your area. Read the first 10 personal ads that pop up, and count how many times you read "I like to go roller-blading, I like salsa dancing, I like movies, I like to hang out with friends, and the worse yet, I like to go hiking on the weekends."
I could go on and on, because there are probably 100 words and phrases every guy uses in his personal ad. I list 50 on page 28 of The Guide.
And that's the point I'm trying to make. 99.9% of all of the personal ads you'll read sound exactly the same. They don't standout from the crowd. And considering you're competing with thousands of men in your area, if you want to get the attention of women, you better place a personal ad that stands out.
That's why the personal ad I wrote worked. It was written so well and stood out so much, I was still getting a dozen replies per month almost a year later.
I'm not going to reveal the exact ad I wrote in 2000, because I don't want thousands upon thousands of guys using it at the same time. But I will tell you what my headline was. It was:
"How could you pass up this offer I'm about to make?"
Why did this headline work so well? Because it stood out from all of the other "Single male looking for a sweet woman" headlines you always read on these sites.My headline was unique and intriguing. It enticed women to read the rest of my ad, because they immediately thought to themselves "what this offer he's talking about? I'd better find out more."
And that's the whole intention of writing a unique headline - to get them to click on your ad so they read more about you.
Many sites these days, like Americansingles.com, will show you how many women have clicked on your ad. This is a good way to judge how effective your headline is at getting the reader's attention.
So, without further delay, let me begin explaining the 3-U Method by talking about the first element of your ad, the headline.
The Headline (Write A Unique Headline That Screams "Read Me")
In advertising, there's something known as the 3-second rule.
For instance, studies show that magazine advertisers have 3 seconds to capture the reader's attention. If the advertisement is written poorly, the reader will glance over the ad, turn the page, and the marketer will lose the sale.
It's the same with personal ads.
On average, women will look at between 20 to 25 personal ads per session.
If your headline is boring and typical, she'll move on to the next guy, and you've lost a potential date.
So I want you to remember this: The headline is the most important element of your personal ad. It's your first written contract with a woman. So make it count, my friend.
The best approach is to use a headline that's intriguing and inviting, one that makes her think or answer a question.
On page 23 of The Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide, there are 25 headlines you can use right now. All 25 headlines have already been tested on dating sites, and they work like a charm.
So, the headline is the first piece of the puzzle. Make it unique so that you standout among the thousands of personal ads posted by men. Once that's done, it's time to move onto your personal profile. This is where you describe yourself in more detail? and where you sell yourself to the woman.
Your Personal Profile (How To Make Your Ad Ultra-Specific)
I'm sure you've heard the phrase "The devil is in the detail." Well, not only is the devil in the detail, but the detail in your ad will help you get women. What most women want, what they dream about, is going on an adventure or going on an exciting journey with Prince Charming.
And that's what you have to do. You literally have to take her on a journey with your personal ad. This will excite her... this will entice her... and it will show her that you're not the typical, boring guy.
It also separates you from the pack. Like I said earlier, take a look at about 20 personal ads posted by men. The one thing that stands out is that they all sound the same.
That's exactly what you don't want. You want to be the one firecracker among all of the duds.
For example, here are 2 ways of describing things you like to do. Which one do you think is more attractive to women:
"I like to do anything fun like shoot pool, roller blade, camp, hike, travel, road trips, or go to bars with a couple good friends." (By the way, I took that from a real personal ad I found.)
Or,
"Before I tell you more about myself, let me quickly tell you about this vineyard not far from me. It's called Boordy's. Every Saturday evening during the summer they have a wine tasting and outdoor concert. Sometimes the band plays jazz, sometimes they play swing. I went several times last year, and had a blast. Besides the delicious wine and good music, the sun setting behind the vineyard is simply breathtaking. As you can see, I enjoy things other than the typical night of club hopping!"
I won't go on, but I think you get the picture. I'm trying to weave a story - full of specific details - that paints a picture of what I'm like. And women love this. They eat it up. How do you think I got 23 women to respond to my ad in a week?
I mean, take my first example. Anyone can say, "I like to do anything fun."
But in the second example I really separate myself from the others by taking the woman on a romantic journey. When she reads my ad, she can literally see herself sitting next to me at the vineyard, sipping wine, and listening to live music.
This stuff works like a charm.
Okay, let's say you written a stunning headline that gets the attention of a chick. She clicks on your personal ad to read more. Your personal profile is great. It teases her senses and takes her a romantic journey. At the end of your personal ad you have 2 choices: 1) End it will a wimper, or 2) end it with a bang.
Obviously you want to go out with a bang so that you leave a lasting impression on her. So, once you have a woman interested in your personal ad, it's time to seal the deal. And the only way you can seal the deal, is by making her act immediately.
Listen to me closely, because this is incredibly important. The whole point of writing a unique and ultra-specific personal ad profile is to convey a sense of urgency so she emails you NOW.
Not tomorrow... not next week... NOW!
I'm not going to spend too much time on the close, because I go into great detail about it in The Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide.
But to give you an idea of what I mean by making your close urgent, think about a commercial you see on television where the guy says "This once-in-a-lifetime sale ends this Saturday!"
That's the kind of urgency you want in your ad. A strong close my members have been using with great success is the "If you want to take a day trip to XYZ, let me know. I'm going to next week." Hopefully in your personal ad you've been talking about and building up the excitement for whatever XYZ is. It could be a festival, a concert, or in the case of my example, a vineyard.
And many dating sites allow for an immediate response. On Americansingles.com and Match.com, women can send you a "tease" or a "wink."
Lately, I've been finding out that a woman that sends you a tease or a wink is just as likely to meet you for a date as a woman who sends you a full-blown email.
The point is to get her to make the initial contact. I talk more about this in The Guide, and I show you how to keep track and measure the effectiveness of your ad through things known as the conversion and response ratio.
Okay, there you have it. A quick and dirty outline for the 3-U Method, and how to use it in the 3 elements of your personal ad.
I go into greater detail in The Guide. Plus I give you 5 examples of great personal ads that you can use now. You can use them for yourself, or you can use them as a model to write your own personal ad. Trust me, they'll work as long as you follow my techniques.
Now, I told you quite a bit about my techniques and how they work. But I think it's important for you to hear the success stories of other guys who've used my professionally written personal ads.
Listen to Paul. He purchased my Guide back in April 2003. "Jack, Currently I have over 55 messages. Almost everyday I get a new response to my personal ad. My personal ad has been viewed 429 times [that's a conversion rate of 12.8%: and I talk more about conversions in the Guide] . I have been out with about 5 different women and I have only been doing this for a month and a half. I honestly could not afford or keep up with all of the responses. It is well worth the cost for this information. It works like magic" - Paul You might think that's incredible - getting 55 replies to your personal ad. But with The Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide, this is more common than you think. I just received another glowing email from a guy named Rick. He bought The Guide on May 30. Here's his exact email: Dear Jack, Thank you for the guide on "How to Write Personal Ads." You are absolutely right. After three days of having my personal ad posted, I have received 14 replies. That is twice the number I got during a period of 4 months when I first tried the internet dating over a year ago. This is awesome!! As good as these emails sound. Nothing is better than what you're about to read. These are direct quotes taken from some of the 55 replies Paul received to his personal ad. "I was interested by your personal ad because of its originality and content. I do fear though that you might be too far away. But I'm open to find out" -Stacey "Hey, what's up? I must say, your personal ad has intrigued me. You sound like a very sweet, caring and fun loving guy." -Meghan "Hey hun, u sound awfully sweet...J" -Beth "Your personal ad sounds like you are either philosophical or a romantic... Which is it, or is it both!!? Have a great day and get back to me when you get a chance?" -Lisa "Yes I am curious to know how our attitudes may be a match. I read your personal ad and it interested me because of what you said. Let's get to know one another." -Jenny "First things first, it is very nice to meet u! You sure have a way with words I see =) I have looked through your personal ad and that is why I sent u an eye contact! If you would like, you can contact me." -Sara "Hi, I'm Christa. You sound very nice. I took a look at your personal ad and you almost sound too good to be true!" "Paul, you are a hell of a writer! I'm sure that you have been told that before." -Michelle If you want to have the same success with women, I urge you to act quickly. Most dating websites allow you to post a free personal ad of yourself for the first month. After the first month is done, they'll start charging your credit card every single month until you cancel. If you have a personal ad on a dating website for a full year, you'll spend more than $200. So don't waste your money posting a boring, typical personal ad. Make it work for you!
That's why I'm charging only $19.95 for The Guide. That's a bargain considering you're getting:
- 5 Sample Personals Ads That Already Work!
- You'll Get the Same Personal Ad That Got Me 23 Chicks In Just 7 Days... In Addition To The One That I'm Using Now That's Gotten Me 35 Responses In 21 Days!
- Plus I'll Teach You How To Reply Back To A Woman Who's Responded To Your Ad!
Look, I'm so sure that my personal ads and techniques will get you women, I'll refund 100% of your money if you don't get a single reply to your ad.
So, as you can see, there's no risk to you. If my Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide gets you tons dates, you'll love me. If it doesn't, I'll refund your money. No questions asked.
I'm completely serious - no questions asked.
So download The Guaranteed To Get A Date Guide now. We just released the 4th edition. And even though the Guide is longer than before with 2 more chapters (for a total of 12 chapters), I've decided to keep it at its original price of $19.95!
Don't waste anymore time. As you read this, there are hundreds of men successfully using my techniques in their personal ads. And they're dating a lot of women as a result. You can be one of them.
Happy scoring, my friend,
Jack Conway
Executive Publisher, The Weekly Score
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